living in the south, deep deep south, most people here tend to deep deep fry everything! personally, i can't eat deep fried foods. it makes me very sick and i just can't handle it. that being said my husband grills our food. rain or shine, in the heat or in the cold, he is the grill master!
the main thing we have to get our daughter to understand that being a size 0 isn't the best thing in the world for her. she has fought like crazy to get so small. when i asked why she did this, i was told she has to starve herself to keep up with her skinny friends. that being 'fat' wasn't an option. denying herself food made her 'feel good'. i kinda had a bit of a breakdown when she said the part about 'feeling good'. i don't think fainting because she refuses to eat actually feels good but ya know what do i know? i am just a 41 year old mom. i don't know anything, right? well guess what, i am going in with her to each meeting and i am going to learn with her.
wish us luck!